My horoscope screwed up!

GEMINI: YOUR HOROSCOPE FOR THE DAY
See this at: http://horoscopes.astrology.com/dailygemini.html

Your thoughts are vibrant and potent today, so see if you can find a good way to organize them -- or at least to get your people to help you remember them! Socializing is its own reward, too.

D A M N R A W R !

This day was a big burnout! I'm mad and this brainsick horoscope got me pissed off. "Your thoughts are vibrant and potent today" What the heck does this sentence mean? I was like arggh! mad at everything. I almost burst out with tears. It's giving me headaches. The sentence is very wrong. I'm just doing and feeling the other way around. I spaced out today in such a way that I am not aware of my surroundings. I made a mistake today and it became a total mess (and that's so confidential). But thanks to my dear friend Kia. She tried to calm my day. She told me that I'd get my ass kicked if I stay this way - ANGRY. Thanks a lot Kee!

By the way, this is just a non-sense post again. I just want to blog - as an outlet or my anger. Throw some fears and make my thoughts VIBRANT - just what my horoscope said. Sa mga nag-basa, thanks!

MORALITY CHECK

Almost all of our actions have hidden intentions. Most often than not it is for our own benefit. An example of this is the announcement of our President, almost 4 years ago, that she will run, despite her Rizal Day declaration. Her allies merely describes it as a political strategy. With the frenzy going on in the government and with all the gimmicks and "front acts", it is very hard to look for the person that is truly worth your vote. The youth is starting to lose hope here in the Philippines. We are starting to doubt if we can still have a better future here. With the people running the government, what kind of hope do you expect?. If the youth, the so called "HOPE OF THE NATION", can no longer see the beauty of staying here, we are next to be doomed.

This incoherent action does not only exist in the political quagmire of the Philippines. These actions can be found almost everywhere. There are organizations and people, who greed for power and cupidity wants to hold on to power no matter what.

Our moral is now being challenged, if we can still hold on to it.

Our leaders may be living an immortal lifestyle but let us not allow ourselves to be like them. The country can no longer suffer another fatal blow. This is the time to heal our nation, let us not waste another chance in the coming election. If this still fails, we are a country of IDIOTS that choose popularity than ability.

MORALITY is a big word; it takes a lot of guts to say you are living within that conformity.

It is badly needed by the people in authority. If you wash your hands in the dispute between the powerless and the powerful, you are not being neutral. You are siding with the powerful.

We nailed someone on the cross to be our example. We should prove to the poor MAN that he didn't die for nothing.

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This is supposed to be my speech in my English subject. I thought it will happen on the same day that it's announced. So I didn't prepare that much!. I think this speech is quite inappropriate based on the issues nowadays to tackle. Heheh, I forgot that the next election will be on 2010! (*naging advance ako masyado)

These are right "If this still fails, we are a country of IDIOTS that choose popularity than ability" and "OUR MORAL IS NOW BEING CHALLENGED". So think about it.

Btw, even though it's an elementary-like speech. I hope it makes sense to you. Thanks for reading this.

anger management (?)

GALIT - anger, damnation, hatred, adj. hostile, indignation, adj. irate, ire, adj. mad, rage, rancor, resentment, vexation, wrath.


[uhmm, what the hell is anger?]


[FOR ME?]


Anger is a complex motion. We are often frightened by our anger when we let out in destructive ways. On the other hand, we can also feel the effects of holding in our anger. Like an upset stomach, pressure , headaches (*like the feeling of a blasting brain,damn).

Finding a proper balance and expressing our anger constructively are important but difficult emotional tasks. Duh, we are not born with an instinctive knowledge of how to focus on it or use it for our benefit or what. That is something that must be learned.

[BASED ON FACTS]


Anger is part of the fight/flight brain response to the perceived threat of pain. When a person makes the cognitive choice to take action to immediately stop the threatening/painful behavior of another (person or organization, or any outside force) anger (as opposed to fear) becomes the predominant feeling, with behavioral, cognitive and physiological correlates.


[anger! anger!]

To feel anger is neither good or bad. It is what we do with our anger, how we act when we are angry is so important. For example when we lash out in anger, later we may feel worse in remorse. However, when we discuss our hurt when someone who is understanding, we may feel better. And talking with the person who caused the hurt in the first place may create a stronger bond between you and that person.

It is difficult to a teenager like me to make the distinction between the emotion of anger and what is done with that anger. To a teenager, they are one and the same. Nevertheless, a teenager needs to learn the difference between the two.

We can control ourselves that we can feel angry and express our blames , yet not be destructive. In other words, it is O.K. to be angry, but it is not O.K. to behave in a destructive manner out of anger.

It is very important to make this distinction with yourself. We should not be chastised for feeling angry, only for destructive behavior. Eventually, we will learn the difference between feeling angry and acting out anger in harmful ways.


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This is an old post from my former blog --> http://route21oneway.blogspot.com (*i'm sooo.. lazy that's why i posted this thing again lol XD).

I remember the time when I felt the most intense anger that I ever had before. My friends are concerned in that conflict so that's why I'm so angry about that sh*t person who started it. We even fought with offensvie words (*haha, but not the PIM thing). Kahit sa gm!. I hated him so much at that time (*kasi at that time, napaka-defensive niya sa sarili niya). He even insisted that we're the one who is wrong (*kahit naman obvious na sa bunganga niya galing lahat ng kasinungalingan). Until he realized that he's the real crap, nag sorry naman siya and I accepted it (*and now we're even friends haha). I also said sorry because actually, me kasalanan rin ako, ayt?. I lashed out mean words at him and that's really bad.

Super panget talaga ng feeling ng nagagalit. Imagine, I didn't sleep dahil sa kakaputak sa kanya (*haha). However, it feels great to handle that kind of situation. It's a way for me to know if I'm matured enough to be engaged in that kind of conflicts and of course, to get through with it.

Don't be carried away by your anger.
Para sakin, mas magandang maging masaya

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maling akala (get rid of it!)

[thuu story]

"A woman suspects her husband is cheating on her. One day, she dials her home and was answered by unknown voice. The woman asked, "Who is this?".

"This is the maid," answers the voice on the other line. "We don't have a maid!," says the woman. The maid says, "I was hired this morning by the man of the house. The woman says, "Well, this is her wife. Is he there?"

The maid replies ,"He is upstairs in the bedroom with someone who I figured was his wife". The woman is fuming. She told the maid, "Listen, would you like a P500,000 be in your hand?". The maid says, "What will I have to do?". The woman tells her, "I want you to get my gun from my desk and shoot the jerk and the witch he's with!!!".

The maid puts the phone down, the woman hears footsteps and gunshots. The maid comes back to the phone and asks, "What do I do with the bodies?". The woman says "Throw them in the swimming pool!!". Puzzled, the maid answers "But there's no pool here".


A LONG PAUSE AND THE WOMAN ASKS "IS THIS 832-4821?"


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[thuu lesson?]

Do not make decisions nor accuse a person at the height of your emotions and specially, "don't be judgmental" (*wag kang humusga kaagad agad ng isang tao).

[for myself?]

I want to be less judgmental, but at the same time, I know it’s not realistic to try to completely stop judging people. In my opinion, it’s an instinct. But what I can do is keep an open mind and always try to find something good about each person.

I always challenge myself to be less judgmental. When i catch myself doing it, I ask myself why I would jump to such a conclusion. what has made me biased in this way?
I actually feel a lot better since I’ve been working on it. Being more accepting of others helps you be more accepting of yourself. There is definitely a strong connection between them and i also think less judgmental people are more intelligent *sigh*. They see things with open minds. they don’t leave any option out. they find truth. This is kind of ironic seeing as judgmental people usually think they know everything :). Ayokong humusga ng isang tao basta basta lamang without any basis. Judging a person is wrong (*definitely mali!)

[for the backstabbers]

Back-off losers!. Don't say mean things at the back of a person at (*worst) lalo na kung hindi mo siya talaga kilala. Try putting yourself in his/her shoes. It's so hard to be backstabbed and accused by lots of people. It hurts the person a lot. With every atrocious words that you throw at that person, you are also slowly ruining that person's positive outlook in life and self-confidence (*at napaka insensitive mo!). Try to know the person more before judging. Judging without any basis is a crap. If you're a human enough (*or a wise animal though lol XD), you know what I mean, right?. So don't be judgemental. Be an open-minded person. Don't be so stupid.

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I hope you like the story. Natutuwa talaga ako nung nabasa ko. "Don't be judgmental", that's the best lesson that I think I can get from it.

Wag magpadala sa maling akala, it can lead you to awful situations.

--luch Ü